Mental Toughness

I realized today something about myself that I haven't seen clearly before, although those close to me have probably seen. It is a tendency to whine and feel sorry for myself when things don't go the way I want them to ...when those around me have needs ...when my comfort is disturbed ...when my plans don't pan out. This is something I need go after, and keep going after it until I catch up with where I should be at this age.